We catch up with Yorkshire-based Katherine Metcalf, an early years teacher who is currently taking a career break to care for her four children.
I studied for a PGCE in Early Years, graduating in 1994.
I'm from Cumbria, and I'd taken a degree in fine art in Yorkshire, but I'd always said that if I did any further study, I'd do it in London. Coming from the North, I felt I needed to spend some time down South in the capital. At that time a lot of the courses on offer at other institutions in London concentrated on teaching children aged five and over, and I liked the fact that Kingston focused on early years, from age three. But I was so busy that I didn't see much of London!
Hard work!
Yes. I met my future husband just before graduating, and his parents lived locally, so I did pop in from time to time, and I've kept in touch with one person who was on my course. By coincidence, my husband is a Kingston University graduate too, though he'd left and started work by the time I met him.
I didn't have any firm career path in mind. All I knew was that I wanted to teach, and to be in a school environment, and that's what I did. I hadn't expected to take a career break, but when my daughter came along 11 years ago, it felt like the right thing to do. At the time, I was working in a school as a Key Stage 1 co-ordinator, so I'd started on the management ladder. Today, I have four children, and I'm now reaching the point where I'm thinking about routes back into work.
Before I had children, I'd say being brave enough to go to Vienna as a 21-year-old, by myself, unable to speak German, and getting myself a job there. Back then it wasn't as easy to work in Europe as it is now – you needed work permits. Now, I'd say my greatest achievement is being proud of the fact my children are growing up to be sensible and responsible. I know many factors influence children's behaviour but the way they are brought up is the main one.
Listen to your mother! My mother gave me some terrific advice when I was 18. She told me it was the last time I'd get to do exactly what I wanted to do, so I should do it. That's why I did a fine art degree initially, because I wanted to.
One of my three-year-old's utterances. I can't actually remember what it was, but they're all classics!
Spending it with my family, but not being in charge – so I'm not organising things, or cooking, I'm just sitting back and relaxing. And having some time on my own too.
I can do the splits.
Who would you take with you any why? My family. I couldn't pick anyone out, they'd all have to come.
What book would you take and why? I've given this a lot of thought and it would have the be the Bible. There's so much in it, and you could read, and re-read it, and discover different meanings. If I took a novel and kept reading it over and over again I'd get bored and fed up.
What food item would you take and why? That's easy. Chocolate.
What movie would you take and why? Pride and Prejudice. I don't mind which one – it can be Colin Firth or the Keira Knightly one. It would be good to have some romance, and it's my favourite novel, although I'd have my husband there with me, so I'd have a hunky man!
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Kingston upon Thames
Surrey KT1 2EE
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